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Have you ever ever been caught enthusiastic about a subject when, by sheer luck, you occur upon the right piece of writing about your current obsession? That’s the sensation I had after I got here throughout the Manifesto for Intercourse Optimistic Social Media.
I’ve had just a few strands of ideas about intercourse and the web swirling round in my head lately. On the launch of writer, researcher, felony lawyer (and pal of mine) Katrina Marson’s new ebook Reliable Sexpectations, she spoke about how some folks spend their time involved with how mainstream pornography is offering dangerous intercourse schooling to kids.
Marson’s response was one thing alongside the strains of: there’s not something any of us can actually do in regards to the porn trade, so it’s higher to spend our time enthusiastic about how we’re proactively educating younger folks about intercourse and relationships. We must always equip them to contextualise the possibly dangerous behaviours and attitudes they see in porn — as a result of they’ll see it, sooner quite than later.
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Her remark received me enthusiastic about the depictions of intercourse we see on-line. Most main social media platforms ban sexually specific content material (Twitter being the exception). But porn is likely one of the hottest sorts of content material on the web even because it’s firmly locked outdoors of the mainstream.
There’s a critique of “deplatforming” folks for excessive views that argues their audiences will comply with them to extra excessive and poisonous elements of the web. Are we funneling folks in the direction of content material with extra excessive and damaging sorts of sexual attitudes as a result of we refuse to platform wholesome behaviours? Extra than simply hurt, what good issues are we lacking out on by not exhibiting it?
Then I got here throughout the superb 2021 essay Everybody Is Lovely and No One Is Attractive. Utilizing the more and more muscle-bound and shredded physiques of immediately’s Hollywood stars, writer RS Benedict paperwork how the human physique in cinema has grow to be fetishised and excessive whereas concurrently changing into desexualised. She attributes this partly to the ever-growing affect of capitalism (“[Six packs, thigh gaps] exist to not make our lives extra comfy, however to extend the worth of our belongings” is a alternative quote).
This prompted me to consider how the adtech surveillance capitalism enterprise fashions of tech platforms makes them inhospitable to intercourse, at the least as they’re at present constructed. For instance, automated digital promoting methods rely on a blacklist of phrases — like “intercourse” or “catastrophe” — to make sure that Disney received’t have their graphic for the most recent Marvel film positioned on an article a couple of mass taking pictures or one other piece of content material deemed not model secure.
Companies are effectively inside their rights to wish to take this sort of cautious method, however there are downstream penalties. In follow, these blunt methods in follow can demonetise and due to this fact discourage LGBTIQA+ content material and even tales about the Duchess of Sussex “as a result of her title incorporates the phrase ‘intercourse’” (mark down one other instance of how tech is commonly quite a bit dumber than we assume). A puritanical perspective in the direction of intercourse is constructed into the very infrastructure of the web.
I had begun to idly take into consideration what the web — and by extension, our lives — may appear to be if it wasn’t like this. That’s after I stumbled throughout the manifesto, launched late final month.
Born out of a collaboration at a digital convention that includes neighborhood organisations, advocates and lecturers, the manifesto is a refreshing and sensible doc that lays out some fundamental concepts about what a sex-positive web may appear to be. Rules embody destigmatising intercourse, integrating intercourse into social media, constructing secure areas and extra. It’s fairly a brief and interesting learn, I actually encourage you, expensive reader, to offer it a glance.
What actually struck me is how the manifesto’s ideas are simply good guiding concepts for all of the web (insert the Rainier Wolfcastle “that’s the joke” meme right here). The authors wrote that “as a result of dominant social media platforms see sexual content material as a supply of information, revenue and surveillance, and concurrently see the removing of it as a way to political capital, creating sex-positive social media will due to this fact require structural and systemic adjustments to the present assemblage of energy, labour and worth”.
It follows, then, that altering these would have flow-on advantages past simply intercourse. Rules like valuing the labour of content material creators, tech platforms bettering their accountability and cultivating consent round folks’s privateness quite than ubiquitous surveillance are all concepts that even probably the most prudish particular person can get behind.
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Don’t smash a farmer’s crop for clout. (ABC)
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I used to be shocked, SHOCKED I inform you, that Yemini was prepared to take advantage of a scenario for monetary achieve. (Crikey)
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